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Introducing Romantic Attraction: A Separate Spectrum of Desire
To truly understand the diversity within gay identity, we must differentiate between sexual attraction and romantic attraction.
Reddit, 21 Jul. 2022, https://archive.ph/Tdznv.
"Redesign of the acebleed and arobleed flags".
Wearing a black ring on the middle finger, typically of the right hand, known as an ace ring, has become a way to subtly identify the wearer as being asexual. It challenges the assumption that sexual desire is a prerequisite for a gay identity, opening up space for individuals whose experiences might not fit traditional molds.
This understanding enriches our collective definition of what it means to be gay, moving beyond a solely sexual framework to embrace the full scope of human connection, including deep, abiding romantic love that doesn’t necessarily involve sex.
Queerplatonic Relationships (QPRs) are those relationships that are not romantic in nature but they involve very close emotional connections that are often deeper or more intense than what is traditionally considered a friendship.
A common symbol is an ace playing card, due to the fact that asexual is often shortened to ace.
The AVEN, 27 Aug, 2017, https://web.archive.org/web/20221229071021/http://wiki.asexuality.org/Black_ring.
"Dragons?". "It's my ace spec flag design.". "Hello aspecs who aren’t strictly aro and/or ace!".