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When Hand Angel took Andy to the motel, the volunteer caressed him thoroughly and gave him a handjob.
Finally, make it clear that you enjoy having their c*ck in your hand! Because it made him feel powerful and in control—feelings he rarely had in the rest of his complicated life.
One day I mentioned that he could get in trouble if a cop caught him with his pants down in a car.
Be gentle and seductive – it’s a build-up thing rather than us blokes getting any real pleasure from it, so bear that in mind. Internet users starting posting comments like: “Do they also offer ‘Mouth Angels?’”; “I’m retarded; can I apply for Hand Angel service, too?”; and “Only three times in a lifetime?”
There even appeared to be negativity on an official level.
After stroking your own penis for years, there’s something decadent about someone else taking over—assuming, of course, that that’s emotionally comfortable.
Some men pay for handjobs because it’s the only way they can get one that satisfies them. Don’t you think if you advocate their sexual rights, it is like another form of discrimination?”
Of course, he seemed to only be proving Hand Angels’ point; to suggest that advocating a disabled person’s sexual rights is a form of discrimination is, first, patronizing in itself, and secondly, just completely bizarre—how is consensually receiving a handjob in any way discriminatory?
Most men know how to touch themselves, but giving adequate directions to someone else can be complicated, the more so if your partner doesn’t have a penis.
But what some men (read: tops) fail to think of is that their partner most likely has a different rhythm and routine when it comes to masturbation – hey, look, some of us take quicker or longer to cum than others, that’s just how it is.
Volunteers—the group of 10 people actually giving the handjobs—come from varied backgrounds; some are gay, some are straight, some are disabled, some are PhD students, some are social campaigners and some work in the media.
No two penises are the same, so talk to your partner about how they like to be touched – or better still, ask to watch them masturbate and pay close attention!
The person has to be recognized by the government as having a serious physical impairment, but can’t be mentally disabled. Touch therapy has been shown to increase levels of hormones such as oxytocin and endorphins, which promote feelings of bonding, trust and pleasure.
Taiwan—officially known as the Republic of China—has one of the best health systems in the world; its million or so disabled citizens receive some of the most thorough medical attention you’ll find, including everything from long-term care to traditional herbal medicine.
Next, they “smuggled” him out of his house and took him to a motel for a handjob.
Enthusiasm goes a long way, and it’s a big turn-on to see someone so obviously thrilled by getting to handle your penis
Greg*, 25, gay
For gay men especially, a good hand job is all about taking the other person into consideration.
Yes, I get it, men masturbate – a lot.
We need touch for benefits of Well-being, Body Awareness, Stress & Anxiety Level and Interpersonal Relationship.
Touch therapy, involving the stimulation of tactile input, can bring our body into deep relaxation.
Benefits include stress reduction, decreased anxiety and depression, improved sleep quality and reduced physical pain.
Blowjobs are much better.
James, 31, gay
Sure, dexterity and technique are important for a good hand job, but – in my opinion – the most important part is feeling the intimacy and closeness of the person giving it.
It was for this reason that a group of social campaigners and volunteers took it upon themselves to create Hand Angel, an NGO whose main service is giving handjobs to the severely disabled.
This might be deemed as controversial by society, but as long as you’re willing to look into it, what we desire is no different from others.