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Sexuality exists on a spectrum, and it’s completely normal to take time to figure out where you feel most comfortable. Understanding your sexuality, whether you are gay, lesbian, bi, pansexual, or straight, is a process.

Am I Gay?

A self-discovery quiz to help you understand your sexuality

Crafted by gay men who have solved their own puzzles, this quiz offers a judgement-free space for self-discovery.

This is a core part of their identity. Take charge and make your own! All responses (main quiz and optional AI questions) are confidential and secure, used only to generate your results, and not shared without consent.

Will my results be shared with anyone?

No, your privacy is paramount. Create an Event and get friends (read some tips on finding new queer friends here) together to check out a gay bar in your city.

Is it with a man, a woman, or someone else?

  • Do I feel comfortable labeling myself, or do I prefer to stay open about my gender and sexuality? Created to support young people in their journey of self-understanding.

    • Am I LGBT? It's okay to question and explore your gender and sexuality.

    Find Someone to Explore something queer happening on Lex

    There’s always something queer happening on Lex. Download Lex and filter your feed by Events to see everything happening in your area. There is no need to rush into a decision or tell anyone about your exploration or come out gay. Both basic and AI-enhanced explorations are confidential, at your own pace.

    Stereotypes Don't Fit

    We reject stereotypes and embrace the spectrum of sexuality.

    This can lead some people to mentally repress their natural romantic and sexual urges, damaging their mental health.

    The categories discussed here can provide a general framework to help you better understand where you might fall on the spectrum of sexuality and the different types of sexual orientations. You can still find value.

    This is a normal aspect of human sexuality acknowledged by our tool, including the AI analysis. Nothing speaking to you? When it comes down to it, there is no reliable "Am I Gay test", so the only way to know that you are gay (definition of gay) is to look within yourself to determine your own thoughts and feelings towards others of the same sex. Our optional AI Personalized Analysis provides a more detailed exploration by considering additional context.

    Maybe you've got different feelings.

  • You Daydream or Fantasize About Same-Gender Relationships – If your crushes or fantasies consistently involve the same gender, this may be a clue about your sexuality. Understanding your gender identity and identity is a personal journey, and there’s no rush to label yourself. It's common for people's attractions to evolve and change over time.

    • How Does The Gay Test Work?

    Answer Questions

    Respond to a series of carefully crafted questions about your feelings, attractions, and experiences in the main quiz.

    Self-Reflection

    The questions encourage honest self-reflection without judgment or bias.

    Consider connecting with LGBTQ+ resources or support groups.

    What should I do after taking the test?

    Use the results as a starting point for further self-reflection and exploration. You might have the option to add info for AI insights later if you skip now.

    It's okay to be unsure!

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